Avoid Dating These 5 Types of Women

Often, a day in the life of the Dating world goes something like this: you meet someone, have a few conversations over the phone, go out once and then never see that person again. Sounds familiar? Chances are while you were on your date you discovered a personality that you know you just can't deal with. It's not that your date was stinky or malicious; you just know that a long-term relationship with that person won't work last.

Going Dating is not about putting people into categories, but there are some personalities that just make a person want to turn and run. You've read the 5 Types of Men that Women Avoid, and because we're all about being fair to both sexes, we have the other side: Five Types of Women that Men Avoid.

1) The Flirty-Bird Woman. Men love women who flirt a little. Men are drawn to a good flirt because besides being fun and charming, she's usually not shy. The flirter shows interest right off the bat, making the "getting to know you" aspect of courtship all the more easy. For a guy, not having to do all the work is a real relief.

There's a difference between a situational flirt and a serial flirt, and the latter is something that men just don't want to deal with. A serial flirt giggles, touches, and tosses her hair at everyone: the best friend, the boss, and the father. A woman who bats her lashes indiscriminately seems like a challenge at first-How do I get her to just pay attention to me?-but that game gets old very fast.

Quickly guys realize that the Flirty-Bird needs constant attention because she's stricken with major self-esteem issues. An extremely confident and patient man may be able to deal with this kind of behavior, but he'll probably run himself ragged before realizing that the Flirty-Bird isn't worth his dating time.

2) The Commitment Aholic Lady. Imagine like you're a guy for a second. You meet a fantastic and beautiful woman and you're having a great first date. The lighting is just right and the food is perfect. You're sharing a great conversation and just beginning to get comfortable when…WHAM! Your date starts talking about your wedding locations, how many dozen kids she wants and Bingo, the name of your future pooch.

This can put a lot of pressure on a guy right off the bat. In any healthy relationship, the first couple of months-and especially the first couple of dates-should be kept light. A woman who fast-forwards to the happily ever after makes guys wonder if they really are her perfect match. With such a speedy narrative, perhaps her plans are all about fulfilling her dreams regardless of anyone who is standing across from her at the wedding.

3) The Cling-On Girl. This gal can't go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She adopts his interests, calls 20 times a day and flies off the handle anytime she's not around to monitor his behavior. The Cling-On is more work than a relationship deserves. She is there at your beck and call and relies on you to entertain her because she basically has no life of her own. The Cling-On smothers any chance of a guy missing her by robbing him of energy and exhausting his patience with her constant demands.

4) The Party Woman. If men meet this ball of fun, they think she is the life of the party. She's carefree, maybe a little wild, and from the outside looks like a person they may be very interested in. Once they get a closer look, however, they realize that her entire life is a full-time party. While a guaranteed good time may seem like a good idea, what will she be like in the oh so sobering light of day?

Her hilarious antics, outgoing personality and sexy dance moves are good in small doses, but the Party Girl doesn't know the meaning of "closing time." It's hard to have a healthy relationship with a person who is masking major problems underneath his or her dating party hat. Plus, we all know that people who can't amuse themselves without mind-altering substances just aren't any fun when the party is done with.

5) The Windbag Lady. Yakkity Yak. The Windbag is the girl who never shuts up, barely stopping to take a breath. Seeming only concerned about what is going on in her life and sharing her boring insights, this Chatty Cathy also has Drama-Queen tendencies which is not good dating material.

The Windbag's rambling renditions can drive men crazy for obvious reasons, but they also make men feel a little obsolete since they can go on and on without anyone else's input. Most people think it takes two to have a conversation, but not The Windbag type.

Women are more verbal than men and get a bad rep for being garrulous. The Windbag, however, doesn't know that the sound of silence is very golden. She needs to learn that the more you talk, the less you can learn.

Finding Ms. Right Now. There are exceptions to the aforementioned Dating personality types, these gals present a tough dating road ahead. Although avoidance of girls with potent personality types may make things easier, keep an open mind and remember that your perfect match may not come in the tidy little package that you planned.

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