October 25, 2008
Love Advices
I’m wondering what credentials are out there to make anyone a dating and relationship ace. I’m in a relationship now, which is great and stable etc… but I really have no idea how I got to this point. Meeting girls, and moreover starting a relationship with the girls you do meet is a hard mix of voodoo magic, alchemy, luck, and personal charm. In that order people. Seriously. What I can’t tolerate is people taking advantage of other people’s insecurities about the subject to advance their personal celebrity, or “expert” status agenda. If having a pulse makes you a relationship ace then I guess I’m wrong, but what makes these people better than the rest of us?
For all my thinking I came up with: the need to be famous about it, and tell people what they should be doing. I came across a nice community lately called guysteachgirls (or girlsteachguys) which takes the “dating and relationship ace” out of the equation, and gets the users to give and recive advice about dating, sex, relationships, and love both in text as well as in video modes. Maybe this will solve the “dating/relationship expert problem once and for all”
I like watching these so-named “dating and relationship experts” on the web or on tv. Where do these people come up with their nonesense??? I get the impression that if you belt out crap with enough conviction, that people would think you are authoritative on the subject.
Dating Advice
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August 27, 2009
Pick Up Lines @ 2:55 pm:
Well there are many of us out here who make a living helping men learn how to successfully find a woman, either for a date or for a marriage. What seals the deal for us is a hands on demonstration. For instance, we will ask a guy to think of the worst possible thing he thinks we can say to completely turn a woman off. Then he accompanies us as we approach a beautiful woman and say this and have her laughing and our friend by the end of the conversation. It really doesn't matter what you say. It is how you say it.
March 31, 2010
Pick Up Artist @ 4:48 am:
Yeah, there are men out there called "pick up artists" who make it their life's work learning how to meet and seduce attractive women, so that they can teach it to other guys. I think the best credentials for being a dating coach is to actually have dated a lot of girls.