Panic forces people to do stupid things. It leads to desperation and judgment can virtually “fly out the window.” This is a common scenario among people who have been given “their marching orders” in a relationship.

The first thing people who have been dumped do is panic. It’s a common reaction. In The Magic Of Making Up Tips, T W Jackson highlights this “ugly” trait and teaches you how to avoid it. Let’s face it, how many people have the ability to maintain a cool head when they’ve just taken a shot to their ego?

It requires a little skill but when you can understand the benefits of maintaining your cool during this emotionally charged time, you’ll not only recognize those benefits but will want to act in the correct manner to achieve them.

The Magic Of Making Up Tips is becoming a classic in the area of making up. The techniques taught by Jackson may seem a little controversial but if you are planning to get back with your ex, then you better take heed of the advice given.

Panic and desperation are just a couple of mistakes people make when they get dumped. In this article, we’ve highlighted seven major “boo-boos” spurned lovers make.

7 “Boo-Boos” People Make When They Get Dumped!

1. The number one mistake is calling too soon after being dumped. A person's ego takes a hit and the natural inclination is to want to rectify things if only to massage their own ego. In actual fact, you'll only be pushing your ex further away.

2. Calling, sending a barrage of text messages and emails is not a good idea. By continually contacting them you're not giving them the space they need to assess their own emotions.

3. Trying to convince them that they are making a big mistake is considered a no-no. Honestly, they don't really care what you think. Right now, they want you out of their lives.

4. Avoid like the plague in confronting your ex and starting an argument. More importantly, don't dredge up things from the past and point out the mistakes they've made.

5. Acting wimpy. Also, avoid telling them over and over how much you love them or apologize continuously. It's needy behavior and to most, it's unattractive.

6. Don't talk to his/her family or friends. This alone can kill any chance of getting your ex back. Many make the mistake of trying to convince the family and friends of their ex that they have been hard done by but in reality, whose side do you think they are going to take?

7. Avoid the temptation of showing up unannounced anywhere your ex likes to hang out. Many will do this and act dumb as if it's a co-incidence but in the main, people aren't going to buy it and you'll probably earn the "stalker" tag. This is one of the many mistakes highlighted in The Magic Of Making Up Tips.

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