July 3, 2009

What It Talkes To Attract Guys

I have always enjoyed engaging in flirting. It's all fun and games until that ring is around your finger. Honestly without flirting where would we be? When I first met my now husband, I was a master when it came to flirting. To know how to flirt men you have to be confident, easy going, and witty. Now I am not talking about the one liners guys like to drop. Are not you tired? you have been running in my mind all through today. Talk about feeling great, when that man flirts back with you it makes your effort all the worthwhile.

It is always a nice feeling when you find men who have no idea about everything and anything you say. You could probably flash the guy for all they know before they get that you are trying to flirt with them. Try to keep eye contact and never stumble over words is the best advice anyone can give you! When men woo women, they sweep them off their feet with innumerable romantic whispers, promises and some times a lot of sweet nothings. Women too, being incorrigible romantics, are carried away and start fantasizing that they have got the man of their dreams.

Eventually, the man asks her to become his wife, she accepts, and they are officially engaged. Returning to the rigor of daily life happens all too soon after the wedding and honeymoon are over, leaving it all to seem as if just a dream. All is hunky dory for some days and then slowly, the euphoria decreases and the man slowly reveals his real self. He throws his things around expecting his wife to restore them to their places, expects laundered clothes all the time, wants breakfast to be ready by the time he leaves, expects wife to greet him when he returns, watches TV while sipping coffee, while the wifey dear is preparing dinner.

He has his dinner and goes to sleep blissfully unaware of what his wife wants. Do you want to know what men want? Everyone needs a wife as a lover, a friend, a mother, a sister, a nurse, a house keeper, an adviser. This makes them most lovable person in the world. To my mind, what attracts a man, more than anything else, is a sense of fun. Most people prefer a companion who is upbeat, enjoys life, and doesn't dwell on negative experiences. Enough of the world already consists of uncertainty and misery, and you definitely want someone buoyant and easygoing who can act as a corrective to all of that.

Sometimes we put our own pleasures in front of our conscience and will try anything once just to be able to say we did. If you want to attract a man, show him that you're not afraid to embrace the things you enjoy. You do not want to spend your time with someone who will not allow themselves to partake in all the greatness that is offered in their lives. This would make for a very poor life partner. I'm a man, and the best relationships I've had were with women who shared my goofy sense of humor and willingness to waste time and act silly every now and then.

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